Popping the Question: How to Ask Your Girlfriend to Watch Porn With You

Its never easy popping the question. The answer is one of two extremes, she could be delighted and wonder what took you so long, or she could be mortified. However don't be discouraged, we have new evidence to back you up, plus a wide selection of DVD's to choose from.

What most people don't realise is that women watch porn too. Don't believe me? Popular adult shop Ann Summers surveyed women and found 96% of them have watched porn and liked it. Watching porn with your partner is highly beneficial as it builds excitement and you can learn new positions from it. Though why are so many guys too scared to ask? And why do we think only men watch porn?

Traditional and stereotypical porn doesn't cater for women. It's unrealistic and the guys are not very attractive. Not to mention there's no story line, and the sex can be too rough. However porn is changing, and for the better. Now it features better story lines, hotter guys and most importantly better sex. So if your girlfriend still thinks porn is still a beautiful woman with an old, flabby man (i.e Ron Jeremy) you can reassure her its anything but.

Though still be careful when approaching her with this question. Make it clear that it's not replacing her, and this is something you want to do with her. Also reassure her that your not trying to force her to do things she's uncomfortable with. So if she hates anal or facials, make sure you make it clear that just because it happens in the movie, doesn't mean it has to happen in real life. After all the porn is there to add excitement, just like a toy does.

Here at Be Daring we have titles made solely for couples to watch (see in store for our full range). Some are focused on the story line, others have a story line and hardcore action. The best way to find a movie that suits both is finding out what you both like and a movie that caters for both of your tastes. For example anything by Digital Playground has both a story line and hardcore action.

So remember, when asking your girlfriend remember to approach her gently. Make it clear it's not replacing her, and that this is for both of your enjoyment. After all watching porn together is similar to using a toy in the bedroom. It's not there to replace anyone, it's to enhance your experience together.

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